Featured – TransOutLoud https://transoutloud.org Empowering the Trans Community Wed, 30 Apr 2025 14:27:22 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.8.1 https://transoutloud.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/favicon.png Featured – TransOutLoud https://transoutloud.org 32 32 FA ‘carefully reviewing’ transgender inclusion policy after Supreme Court ruling https://transoutloud.org/fa-carefully-reviewing-transgender-inclusion-policy-after-supreme-court-ruling/ Wed, 30 Apr 2025 14:27:19 +0000 https://transoutloud.org/?p=59280 The Football Association says it is “carefully reviewing” its transgender inclusion policy following a UK Supreme Court ruling earlier this month.

The FA issued an update to its policy shortly prior to the ruling which continued to allow transgender women to play in women’s football with reduced testosterone levels, but added a formal process allowing the governing body to exercise ultimate discretion to refuse or remove eligibility to players on grounds of safety or fairness.

However, it has confirmed the policy is now being examined again.

A general view of the pitch and stands ahead of the Scottish Gas Men’s Scottish Cup semi final match at Hampden Park, GlasgowA general view of the pitch and stands ahead of the Scottish Gas Men’s Scottish Cup semi final match at Hampden Park, Glasgow
The SFA is understood to have altered its policy regarding transgender women (Jane Barlow/PA)

An FA spokesperson said: “We are carefully reviewing our policy and taking legal advice.”

The Scottish Football Association is understood to have updated its policy so that only those born female can play in women and girls’ football from under-13s upwards next season.

The Supreme Court ruling issued on April 16 offered clarification on terms used in the Equality Act. It concluded that Section 195 of the Act, which allows the lawful exclusion of athletes based on sex from gender-affected sports, was “plainly predicated on biological sex”.

Former FA chairman Lord Triesman told The Telegraph at the time of the ruling: “The pitiful excuses of some sports bodies, and especially the FA, have been shown to be unlawful.

“Women’s sport, as in all else, is defined by biology facts. There is no room for alternative propositions and the bodies concerned must reform and comply with the law at once or certainly face constant legal challenges.”

Since the ruling was handed down, the Ultimate Pool Group has updated its policy to ban trans women, having also received a report that pool was a gender-affected sport.

Snooker’s global governing body, the World Professional Billiards and Snooker Association, is also reviewing its policy.


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Robert De Niro’s daughter, 29, comes out as transgender in first public interview https://transoutloud.org/robert-de-niros-daughter-29-comes-out-as-transgender-in-first-public-interview/ Wed, 30 Apr 2025 14:26:15 +0000 https://transoutloud.org/?p=59283 Robert De Niro’s daughter, Airyn, has come out as transgender in her first public interview. The 29-year old revealed that she had begun hormone replacement therapy in November last year.

The actor’s daughter opened up about her sexuality and how she hopes to be a role model for queer women of color. In an interview with Them, Airyn shared the reason behind why she wanted to publicly discuss her transition. “There’s a difference between being visible and being seen,” she said.

“I don’t think I’ve been seen yet.”

She continued: “Trans women being honest and open, especially [in] public spaces like social media and getting to see them in their success… I’m like, you know what? Maybe it’s not too late for me.

“Maybe I can start.”

Robert De Niro attends the Haute Living Robert De Niro Cocktail Event at Avra on June 27, 2024 in New York City.© Getty Images
The actor has seven kids

Airyn came out as a gay man as a teenager but shared how she never felt as though she fit in at high school. “I was always told I was too much of something or not enough of something growing up: Too big, not skinny enough,” she said.

“Not Black enough, not white enough. Too feminine, not masculine enough. It was never just, ‘You’re just right, just the way you are’.”

However, the actor’s daughter shared how beginning hormone therapy in November 2024 helped her. “I think a big part of [my transition] is also the influence Black women have had on me. I think stepping into this new identity, while also being more proud of my Blackness, makes me feel closer to them in some way,” she added.

Family life

Robert welcomed his daughter alongside her twin brother Julian with his ex-partner Toukie Smith in 1995. “I wasn’t brought up having a side part in one of dad’s movies or going to business meetings or attending premieres. My dad was very big on us finding our own sort of path,” she shared.

Airyn sat in restaurant celebrating her mom's birthday© Instagram
Airyn celebrating her mom’s birthday

“I would want [success] to happen on my own merit.”

Future

Photo of Robert De Niro holding his twin children© Instagram
Childhood photo

Airyn detailed her hopes for the future and the stars that she looks up to regarding queer advocacy. “I want queer people of color and bigger-bodied people to have an Alex Consani. I want queer people of color and bigger-bodied people to have a Hunter Schafer,” she said.

“A part of me has always wanted to model and sort of follow my mom’s footsteps. Honestly, if I could be on the cover of Vogue with her or recreating one of her pictures, that would be a dream come true.”

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Who is Airyn De Niro? Robet De Niro’s Daughter Comes Out as Transgender https://transoutloud.org/who-is-airyn-de-niro-robet-de-niros-daughter-comes-out-as-transgender/ Wed, 30 Apr 2025 14:22:07 +0000 https://transoutloud.org/?p=59285 Robert De Niro’s daughter has come out as transgender in her first public interview.

Airyn De Niro, 29, told Them magazine that she begun taking hormone replacement therapy in November last year.

Commenting on her transition, she said: “Trans women being honest and open, especially [in] public spaces like social media and getting to see them in their success… I’m like, you know what? Maybe it’s not too late for me… Maybe I can start.”

Newsweek has contacted Airyn for comment on social media outside of regular working hours.

Airyn De Nero
Airyn De Niro has come out as transgender in her first public interview.

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Why It Matters

President Donald Trump has taken multiple steps to unravel protections for transgender people since returning to the White House.

Following his inauguration on January 20, Trump issued an executive order stating that it is “the policy of the United States to recognize two sexes, male and female.” He has targeted gender-affirming care for transgender youths, banned trans people from serving in the military, and excluded trans women from competing in female sports.

What To Know

Speaking about her transition, Airyn told Them magazine: “I was always told I was too much of something or not enough of something growing up: too big, not skinny enough. Not Black enough, not white enough. Too feminine, not masculine enough. It was never just, ‘you’re just right, just the way you are.'”

She added: “I think a big part of [my transition] is also the influence Black women have had on me… I think stepping into this new identity, while also being more proud of my Blackness, makes me feel closer to them in some way.”

Born to Robert De Niro and actress Toukie Smith, Airyn grew up largely out of the spotlight. She said that she hopes to pursue a career in modelling and acting, and has also trained as a mental health counsellor.

“People of color and queer people definitely need more mental health advocacy and support. So I’m hoping I’m able to do that,” she said.

Mental health is a critical issue for Black transgender and nonbinary young people. According to the Trevor Project, as of 2023, one in four Black transgender and nonbinary people had reported a suicide attempt in the previous 12 months.

What People Are Saying

Lexxe, a musician, responded to Airyn’s Instagram post, writing: “You are such a vision I loved reading your words!”

Hannah Joelle Kamphof, a blogger, wrote on Instagram: “Amazing, thank you for showing the world you are with your own voice! Our world needs so much more of this from our diverse community.”

Tomi Lahren, Fox News commentator, wrote on X, formerly Twitter: “Isn’t it amazing that all these deranged celebrities end up having kids who don’t know what gender they are… Feels like child abuse.”

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Argentina’s transgender community confronts ‘chaotic, desperate’ situation https://transoutloud.org/argentinas-transgender-community-confronts-chaotic-desperate-situation/ Thu, 10 Apr 2025 18:41:40 +0000 https://transoutloud.org/?p=58825 BUENOS AIRES, Argentina — A group of Argentine transgender activists with whom the Blade spoke on April 4 said President Javier Milei’s policies have made their community even more vulnerable to violence, discrimination, and poverty.

“The situation is really chaotic, desperate,” said Florencia Guimares García, a travesti activist who is president of the House of Lohana and Diana Civil Association. “There is also a lot of fear among the trans and travestí community towards the government’s policies.”

Guimares’s group is named after Diana Sacayán, a prominent trans activist who was stabbed to death inside her Buenos Aires apartment in 2015, and Lohana Berkins, the founder of the Association for the Fight for Travesti and Transsexual Identity who died in 2016.

Guimares and three other trans activists — Julia Amore, Sasha Solano, and Daniela Ruíz — spoke with the Blade after they participated in a trans and travestí rights forum that took place at an LGBTQ cultural center in downtown Buenos Aires. Alba Rueda, the country’s former special envoy for LGBTQ rights, also took part.

“We are in a bad moment for the rights and quality of life of LGBTQ+ people,” Rueda told the Blade during a February 2024 interview.

Casa Rosada in Buenos Aires, Argentina (Washington Blade photo by Michael K. Lavers)

Milei took office on Dec. 10, 2023, after he defeated then-Economy Minister Sergio Massa in the second round of that year’s presidential election. Rueda resigned before Milei assumed the presidency.

Milei, an economist and former congressman, shortly after he took office eliminated the country’s Women, Gender and Diversity Ministry.

Milei last year closed the National Institute Against Discrimination, Xenophobia and Racism, a government agency known by the acronym INADI that provided support and resources to people who suffered discrimination based on sexual orientation, gender identity, and other factors. Milei in 2024 also dismissed trans people who the government hired under the Trans Labor Quota Law, which set aside at least 1 percent of public sector jobs for trans people.

Argentina’s landmark Gender Identity Law that, among other things, allows trans people to legally change their gender without medical intervention, took effect in 2012 when Cristina Fernández de Kirchner was president. Milei on Feb. 5 issued a decree that restricts minors’ access to gender-affirming surgeries and hormone treatments.

Gay Congressman Esteban Paulón, a long-time LGBTQ activist, filed a criminal complaint against Milei after he linked the LGBTQ community to pedophilia and made other homophobic and transphobic comments during a Jan. 23 speech at the World Economic Forum in Davos, Switzerland. Millions of people in Buenos Aires and across Argentina participated in marches against Milei that took place less than two weeks later.

From left: Gay Argentine Congressman Esteban Paulón and Argentine LGBT+ Federation President María Rachid march against Argentine President Javier Milei in Buenos Aires, Argentina, on Feb. 1, 2025. (Photo courtesy of Esteban Paulón)

Milei is among the heads of state who attended President Donald Trump’s inauguration. Milei also spoke at this year’s Conservative Political Action Conference in National Harbor, Md.

“Violence is more explicit, more common,” Guimares told the Blade, noting police violence has become more common against sex workers who are trans or travestí since Milei took office. Guimares added this situation is worse outside of Buenos Aires.

“The situation is different, depending on the location, and even more so in other provinces,” she said. “Even living in the province of Buenos Aires isn’t the same as living in Salta, or in Jujuy, or in Corrientes, or in provinces where the population is more conservative, where the discourse from the churches is much stronger, where all of this has a much crueler impact.”

“Milei’s discourse has legitimatized all of this,” added Guimares.

Amore said Argentina before Milei “had been a beacon” for human rights around the world.

“We’ve been building these laws with a lot of struggle, a lot of effort, with allies, and it wasn’t enough because we didn’t reach our goal,” she said. “These are very young. Our democracy is very young; we have a 40-year-old democracy and we are talking about a Gender Identity Law that is 12-years-old.

Amore added Milei is trying to erase trans and travestí people. Ruiz, an activist and actress who founded Siete Colores Diversidad, an advocacy group, agreed.

“It is a cultural battle for us,” Ruiz told the Blade, referring for the continued struggle for trans and travestí rights in Argentina.

“It marks a cultural paradigm shift that we were carrying out day after day, making ourselves visible,” she added. “We carried it out by making ourselves politically visible, by presenting our travestí and trans Latin American visibility as a beacon to the world.”

The activists spoke with the Blade less than three months after Trump took office.

The American president, like Milei, has targeted the trans community with executive orders and policy directives. These include banning the State Department from issuing passports with “X” gender markers and prohibiting trans adults and young people from sports teams that correspond with their gender identity.

Solana, a trans woman from Peru who advocates on behalf of migrants, noted one of the first executive orders that Trump signed directed the federal government to only recognize two genders: Male and female.

“Man and woman. Period,” she said.

Guimares added Milei’s anti-LGBTQ discourse isn’t even his “original speech, but rather a line drawn from the U.S. government of Donald Trump and its agenda, which he established from the beginning and which he campaigned on as well.”

“This also follows in line with parties like Vox in Spain and other European countries, where we see how in Hungary, where an LGBTI Pride march (in Budapest) is now banned, and in other countries around the world where the population is having a really hard time,” said Guimares. “So, it’s not something original from Milei, but rather he’s taking part in those political agendas to generate strategies and alliances to be able to access economic resources.”

Amore, for her part, urged her American counterparts to continue the fight.

“Don’t let down your guard,” said Amore. “Organize. Come together. Speak out. Become visible in community. Respect the diversity of voices and put your own voices first and make yourselves more visible.”

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FA resists calls to ban transgender players from women’s matches https://transoutloud.org/fa-resists-calls-to-ban-transgender-players-from-womens-matches/ Thu, 10 Apr 2025 18:38:40 +0000 https://transoutloud.org/?p=58833 English football chiefs have introduced new rules on transgender players in women’s matches that stop short of a blanket ban but allow the FA to intervene if it believes there are issues around safety or fairness of competition.

The updated policy came into force on April 1 and continues the practice of allowing transgender women to play in amateur women’s competitions if they have had reduced testosterone levels for at least a year.

Campaigners had wanted football to follow sports such as rugby union and hockey by restricting women’s matches to those who were born female, with an open category for all other players.

Instead, about 20 transgender women registered to play amateur football in England can continue to do so if their testosterone levels are below 5nmol per litre for at least 12 months. However, a change to the regulations means the FA can step in if it has any concerns and ask its Transgender and Non-Binary Eligibility Committee to make a decision.

 

The new FA rules state: “Where there is an issue about a player’s eligibility, efforts will always be made to resolve it through dialogue between the player, the county FA and the FA.

“In any case where (1) the FA does not approve a player’s application to participate in matches in the women’s game following a match observation, or (2) the FA reasonably considers on the ground of (A) safety to competitors and/or (B) fairness of competition that it might be necessary to withdraw a player’s eligibility to participate in matches in the women’s game having previously granted such eligibility under this policy, the player or the FA may refer the matter to the FA’s Transgender and Non-Binary Eligibility Committee for determination.”

Players’ medical records of hormone therapy have to be verified at least annually, before the start of each season, “and more often at the FA’s discretion”, according to the rules.

Sutton United Women's manager Lucy Clark observing a team warm-up.

Clark was the first openly trans referee before becoming Sutton manager. There are about 20 transgender women registered to play amateur football in England

There are no transgender women playing in or even close to the elite level in England. It is understood that if this changes, the FA would seek advice from Fifa — however the policy of world football’s governing body is also around reduced testosterone levels, rather than a full ban.

In September Sutton United women’s team postponed their fixture against Ebbsfleet United after the club were criticised for signing a transgender goalkeeper, Blair Hamilton. Sutton’s manager, Lucy Clark, was the first openly trans referee before her appointment by the club in January 2024.

There have been no cases to date of transgender women wishing to play in professional or international women’s football.

The new FA policy follows a lengthy review and has been drawn up with input from two KCs. The FA is understood to wish to promote inclusion as a priority but to be able to intervene when there are concerns.

In November there was a protest against the FA’s transgender policy outside Wembley before the England men’s match against Ireland in response to a 17-year-old girl being banned for two matches over remarks she made to a transgender opponent in a grassroots match. She was sanctioned after she was found to have repeatedly asked a transgender opponent during a match: “Are you a man?”

Last month the FA’s chief executive, Mark Bullingham, said the governing body was “in the right place” with its transgender eligibility policy. “We do continue to look at areas that we might refine,” he added.

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Top 10 Most Influential Transgender People in the World Today https://transoutloud.org/top-10-most-influential-transgender-people-in-the-world-today/ Fri, 06 Sep 2024 17:11:03 +0000 https://transoutloud.org/?p=55510 Transgender leaders, activists, and artists are making huge strides in advocating for equality and visibility. These 10 individuals are changing the world, using their platforms to push for social justice, and helping to reshape the conversation around gender. Here’s a more personal look at some of the most influential transgender people today and the amazing work they’re doing.

1. Laverne Cox

Laverne Cox is a pioneer. She became a household name with her role as Sophia Burset on Orange Is the New Black, but it’s her tireless work as an advocate that makes her truly iconic. As the first openly transgender person to be nominated for a Primetime Emmy, Laverne has broken barriers and continues to inspire countless people. Whether she’s speaking out against anti-trans violence or fighting for better healthcare access, she’s always at the forefront of the movement.


2. Elliot Page

When Elliot Page came out as transgender in 2020, the world listened. Best known for his roles in Juno and The Umbrella Academy, Elliot’s announcement was a groundbreaking moment for trans representation in Hollywood. He’s used his platform to speak openly about the importance of mental health and trans visibility, and his courage has inspired countless others to live their truth.


3. Janet Mock

Janet Mock is a powerhouse in both activism and entertainment. A best-selling author and director for shows like Pose, she’s been one of the most visible trans women of color in media. Janet’s writing, including her memoir Redefining Realness, offers a raw and honest account of her life, making her a voice of empowerment for the trans community and beyond.


4. Indya Moore

Indya Moore, a star of FX’s Pose, is a force to be reckoned with. As a non-binary actor and model, Indya has used their fame to advocate for trans and non-binary people of color. Their openness about their own struggles, particularly around healthcare access and trans rights, has helped shine a light on issues that often go unnoticed. They were even named one of Time magazine’s 100 most influential people.


5. Rachel Levine

Dr. Rachel Levine made history as one of the highest-ranking openly transgender officials in U.S. government. As the Assistant Secretary for Health, she’s been a vital part of the country’s public health efforts, particularly during the COVID-19 pandemic. Rachel has spent her career advocating for LGBTQ+ healthcare and breaking down barriers in medicine and government.


6. Hunter Schafer

Hunter Schafer’s rise to fame came through her stunning portrayal of Jules Vaughn in Euphoria. But even before she was on screen, Hunter was an activist, fighting for trans youth rights in North Carolina. She continues to be a beacon of hope for young trans people, using her platform to advocate for a more inclusive and accepting world.


7. Geena Rocero

Geena Rocero’s TED Talk, where she shared her story of coming out as transgender, was a powerful moment in her life and for many others. As a Filipina-American model and activist, she founded Gender Proud to push for transgender rights worldwide. Her work brings attention to the legal challenges trans people face, and she’s a fearless advocate for acceptance and equality.


8. Munroe Bergdorf

Munroe Bergdorf is not afraid to speak her mind. This British model and activist has been vocal about racism, transgender rights, and mental health. Her public firing by L’Oréal for speaking out against racism in 2017 led to a huge public conversation about diversity and corporate responsibility. Munroe continues to use her platform to push for change, particularly for transgender and marginalized communities.


9. Alok Vaid-Menon

Alok Vaid-Menon, known simply as Alok, is a non-binary writer, performance artist, and activist. They challenge the binary views of gender with powerful performances and writing that explore identity, race, and self-expression. Alok’s work has a deep impact on the visibility of non-binary people, and they have become an advocate for self-love and breaking down societal norms.


10. Jazz Jennings

Jazz Jennings has been in the public eye since she was a child, and her reality show I Am Jazz has helped bring transgender youth stories into millions of homes. Jazz has been a fierce advocate for trans youth, talking about everything from healthcare challenges to mental health. She’s been an inspiration for so many young people and continues to use her platform to fight for trans rights.


These incredible individuals are not just influential; they’re changing the world. Their courage, advocacy, and commitment to equality inspire countless others and pave the way for a more inclusive future.

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I Am a Trans Texan https://transoutloud.org/i-am-a-trans-texan/ Thu, 16 Mar 2023 16:25:40 +0000 https://transoutloud.com/?p=48487 It strikes me, and may strike you, as a bit crazy to come out as transgender in an essay like this. I’m publicly revealing myself to be a member of a marginalized community in the midst of a moral panic targeting our very existence. Ascribe it to my defiant streak, if you will.

I’m hardly an ideal spokesperson. I’m 43, and I’ve lived my entire life up to this point (with fleeting exceptions) in the gender assigned to me at birth, which is male. Think of my biography as a cautionary tale. It’s painful and messy, and I’m going to tell you some of it. You may find this unpleasant, but I have no other way to say what I need to say. Only bear in mind that my experiences, though common, are not normative. I don’t speak for anyone but myself.

Growing up at the edge of San Antonio’s south side in the 1980s, I learned the usual things about gender and sexuality: Boys are boys and girls are girls and all that. My dad was a biology teacher. I knew the differences. But something seemed to be awry in me for, as far back as I can remember, I felt that I ought to have been a girl, or that in some strange way, I really was a girl, even though everyone treated me as a boy.

Adults policed my gender expression conscientiously, and I inferred that my feelings were unnatural and shameful. Still, I would sit in the pew at church as my parents took communion—we were Catholic—and silently rank which of the women who passed me I would most like to grow up to be. As a small, less-than-masculine child who hated sports, I became the target of bullying once I went to school. But I would lie awake every night, imagining myself becoming a girl—my only refuge from my strange alien existence.

Environmental factors didn’t make me this way. My parents were present and involved; my mother a caring, feminine homemaker and my father, a loud, masculine teacher and artillery officer who was sometimes frustrated by my unmanliness. Expecting me to grow up and marry and follow the same pattern, they enforced the “natural” gender norms they espoused every day of my life. Far from becoming trans through exposure to modern “gender ideology,” I was, simply and naturally, a trans child, even though everything in my upbringing went toward imposing a gender binary that itself represented an unacknowledged ideology. There is no “real me” beneath my transgender self. I have learned to mask it, yes, but if I were somehow to remove it, there would be no me left behind. No more could you remove the flour from a loaf of bread.

As soon as I was old enough to be left home alone, I began secretly wearing my mother’s clothes. Experimenting with femininity launched me into a deep and pervasive calm tinged with a fear of being discovered. After some years, I was found out through a misplaced blouse. I lied my way out of the tribunal that ensued—standing, panicked and alone, before my father and mother. My parents’ eagerness to accept my lies made up for their implausibility. The alternative was believing me to be some kind of queer, which I suppose is what I am.

My junior high coach, a morose sadist who later got fired and went on to a career as a campus cop, compelled boys to shower together in a dimly-lit subterranean cell. A small, undeveloped sixth-grader, I was thrust in there with big, masculine eighth-graders, their eyes ever-roving for some weakling to abuse. My unboyishness and isolation made me easy prey. As a transgender person whose brain was telling me that my body should be female, it’s hard to describe just how traumatic such experiences were. What made them unbearable—to such an extent that I began to self-harm and eventually to plan my own death—was that I had no words or concepts to describe or understand what was going on with me. I was simply a freak of nature, an abomination who had to hide in plain sight, surviving from one morning to the next, hoping that no one would discover my secret, dying a little each day.

You may believe that the problem here was not my being forced into a simplistic gender binary that left me vulnerable to abuse and trauma, but rather my gender dissonance, and that I should have been made to feel at home in my assigned gender. In other words, I should have been coerced into being a normal boy. If you think that, survey the research: It shows, overwhelmingly, that attempts to “convert” gender nonconforming people into traditional gender identities and other forms of rejection are ineffective and traumatizing—in fact, the scientific consensus is that all forms of conversion therapy aimed at altering a person’s sexual orientation or gender identity result in long-term harm—while care that affirms gender identity results almost universally in positive outcomes. It’s also clear that what negative outcomes do occur owe largely to hostile environments.

But since we’re in the middle of a panic about transgender people “invading” sex-segregated spaces, let me add this: Far be it from me to make anyone feel uncomfortable or unsafe, but I have never felt comfortable or safe in any male space. Nor, I believe, would I have felt better in a female space. I prefer privacy for doing such things as defecating and stripping naked, and I find our regime of communal showers and toilets just a little weird and, yes, oppressive. Perhaps that’s one aspect of the problem we should be examining?

There hangs in my parents’ home a circle of my annual school portraits, which show me becoming progressively sadder from year to year. My body was turning into an alien thing with the onset of biological manhood. By the time I graduated, my mounting dysphoria and social problems—I also had an undiagnosed autism disorder—led me to begin planning suicide. In secret, I painted a picture of a girl cutting her wrists. I was the girl, you see. In recurring dreams, I was a young mother. Despair held sway over my waking life.

It was either leave home or die, so I moved across the state for college. My plan was to wait a few weeks and, if nothing changed, to kill myself in a shower stall. Something did change: I found love and acceptance in the woman who became my best friend and then my wife. Several years later, I was still alive, presenting as female in the privacy of our home and as male when I went out. This made me happy. For the first time in my life, I began to approach peace.

It was the turn of the millennium. I was a shelver at the university library, which often left me alone in the stacks at night. Sometimes, I would work in the gender and sexuality section and take down books to try to understand what I was. Many of the books were out of date for that time, and much has changed in our understanding of transgender people since. In them and on the nascent Internet, I encountered terms and categories that didn’t seem to apply to me, reflecting a time when researchers developed theories with little input from the trans community itself. So my gender confusion persisted.

My fragile peace was disturbed when someone to whom we’d entrusted our key entered our home without permission and went through our things. I felt certain that my secret self must have been detected. Mortified and afraid of being outed, I threw all evidence in the dumpster. I grew a beard as a bulwark against “temptation” and began two decades of self-contradiction and mounting desperation, which brings us to today.

“You have to go the way your blood beats,” James Baldwin said in an interview. “If you don’t live the only life you have, you won’t live some other life, you won’t live any life at all.” Belatedly, I’m coming to grips with this. My attempts to cope with gender dissonance have consumed much of my life, taking hours away from each day, isolating me from loved ones, alienating me from my body, leading to bouts of depression, ideations of suicide, and alcohol abuse. It doesn’t go away. In middle age, I’m forced to recognize that nothing short of being who I am will resolve my profound inner conflict. The word “transition” is terrifying but, however catastrophic the process of coming out may be, I’ll not be much good to those I love if I’m burned out, incapacitated, or dead.

Knowledge is power. If I had simply known more, I would have been spared some suffering. The idea that I’ve been converted by the “gender cult” is preposterous. My starting point was my own experience, going back years before I could even articulate it. I simply was what I now call “transgender.” My brain and flesh and bones told me so. And peace could never be mine until I had uncovered its nature and found a way to live with it.

The many bills trying to prevent youth from learning about trans identity trouble me deeply. They seek to condemn another generation to the deathly dysphoria that has burdened me in the belief that people like me are misbegotten or perverted, and that state-imposed ignorance can prevent children from turning out like us.

Painful though it’s been, too much good has happened in my life for me to have regrets. Still, I can imagine meeting perhaps not my actual younger self, but a version of that self living today. What would I want for myself? I would want knowledge and understanding of gender variance. I would want to know that I’m not alone. I would want adults who could sympathize and offer real solutions. And I would want the ability to pursue gender-affirming care in accordance with research-backed practices.

A growing body of research supports the thesis that gender incongruence has a biological basis, though the causes are a matter of dispute in the scientific community. Studies also indicate that the only effective treatment is gender-affirming care. Opponents of gender-affirming care often call it “experimental.” But the first gender reassignment surgeries were performed over a century ago. The use of hormones in gender-affirming care began as early as 1918. To put that in perspective, recall that the first heart transplant was performed in 1967.

Gender-affirming care was pioneered by the German physician Magnus Hirschfeld. As recounted in Susan Stryker’s Transgender History, Hirschfeld became a target when the Nazis came to power—he was both Jewish and gay—and Hitler denounced him as “the most dangerous Jew in Germany.” His Institut für Sexualwissenschaft was sacked and its library burned by Nazis in 1933, setting the cause of liberation back a generation. He fled the country and died in 1935. But the physician Harry Benjamin, mentored by Hirschfeld, went on to champion gender-affirming care in the United States, and since 1979, the Harry Benjamin International Gender Dysphoria Association, now called the World Professional Association for Transgender Health, has issued the standards of care for transgender people.

The parallels between Nazi violence and the current trans panic are unmistakable. It’s easy enough to compare people whose politics you don’t like to Nazis. Still, if someone finds themselves following the Nazis’ footsteps and arguing that Hitler was clearly right about some things, it might be time for them to take stock of what they’re doing and why.

Julia Serano’s trans feminist manifesto, Whipping Girl, ascribes the perception of trans women as a public menace to the belief that masculinity is superior to femininity. In How Fascism Works, historian Jason Stanley cites numerous instances in which violence against the “other” in the name of protecting women and children has been used to cement the patriarchal fascist state. Quoting Serano, he notes that irrational fear of trans women in particular is a bellwether because of the threat we supposedly pose to the nation’s manhood. Anti-trans panic is the knifepoint of fascism protruding into the body politic. But as it slides in, the wound widens, cutting across other minorities.

Texas lawmakers, it doesn’t have to be this way. Trans people already live daily with the threat of violence and attempt suicide at far higher rates than the general population. You can’t “fix” us. You can only exclude or kill us. Protect children by all means. But educate yourselves on how interventions are actually made—in the vast majority of cases, they are tentative and reversible, and in all cases are pursued only under great scrutiny—and base your actions on valid evidence, not hyperbole or cherry-picked cases or cynical culture-war politics. Don’t tear families apart or force them to flee. Let them make well-informed decisions under the guidance of medical caregivers.

Trans people are not a threat. We just want to exist and be left alone. Our dignity cannot be taken. But the Texas Legislature is in danger of trading away its own. Sessions are short and come only once every two years. There are so many urgent issues that need your attention: fixing the power grid and the rest of our infrastructure, finding humane, secure solutions to the border crisis, and protecting our children from being murdered at school. Do the work you were elected to do. Don’t terrorize trans people.

I live in Uvalde. I used to have to describe where that was. I never will again. It’s hard to explain, but I doubt my egg would have cracked if I hadn’t witnessed the kind of things I’ve witnessed this past year. A whirlwind of grief. A spectacle of coverage. Incandescent anger of bereft families. Stultifying indifference of public officials. You’re not saving kids by going after gender-affirming care. You’re killing them. You’re killing them, and you’re leaving the ones who really do need your help exposed. It has got to stop.

We have always been here. We just haven’t always felt safe coming out. But there’s no turning back the clock. We’re going to win our liberation today or tomorrow. At most, those who wish us ill will succeed in causing pain and suffering on their way out. I call on their well-meaning allies not to help them.

But whether you do or don’t, I, for one, refuse to live in the dark any longer. You can hate me or kill me, but you can’t steal the joy that comes from knowing who I am.

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J.K. Rowling Doesn’t Back Down From Transgender Beliefs, Says ‘There’s Something Dangerous About This Movement’ – OutKick https://transoutloud.org/j-k-rowling-doesnt-back-down-from-transgender-beliefs-says-theres-something-dangerous-about-this-movement-outkick/ Thu, 16 Mar 2023 06:26:57 +0000 https://transoutloud.com/?p=48467

J.K. Rowling continues to be one of the biggest villains of the transgender movement.

Rowling believes women are women, men are men and spaces for women should be protected from biological men. And for this, she has received attacks and threats from trans activists.

While speaking with host Megan Phelps-Roper on “The Witch Trials of J.K. Rowling” podcast, the wildly successful author said she stands by her beliefs.

“I thought about it deeply and hard and long and I’ve listened, I promise, to the other side,” she said. “And I believe, absolutely, that there is something dangerous about this movement and that it must be challenged.”

J.K. Rowling Doesn't Back Down From Transgender Beliefs, Says 'There's Something Dangerous About This Movement'
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Rowling admits she knew what she was getting herself into.

“When I first became interested in, and then deeply troubled by, what I saw as a cultural movement that was illiberal in its methods and questionable in its ideas, I absolutely knew that if I spoke out, many people who love my books would be deeply unhappy with me,” she said.

The 57-year-old author said the trans activist movement “echoes the very thing that I was warning against in ‘Harry Potter.’”

“In fact, a ton of Potter fans are grateful that I said what I said,”

And although she admitted it would have been easier not to get involved, Rowling said she feels she’s doing the right thing.

“I am fighting what I see as a powerful, insidious, misogynistic movement, that has gained huge purchase in very influential areas of society,” Rowling said. “I do not see this particular movement as either benign or powerless, so I’m afraid I stand with the women who are fighting to be heard against threats of loss of livelihood and threats to their safety.”

J.K. Rowling is not afraid to stand up for women.

And she first ruffled feathers in 2020 when she sent out a tweet suggesting that “people who menstruate” could simply be called “women.”

That initial tweet garnered a lot of backlash, but Rowling didn’t relent. She wrote about her views in more detail.

In the months following, woke activists and celebrities — including the star actors in the “Harry Potter” movies — spoke out against Rowling.

And it got even more asinine from there.

Quidditch — which Rowling literally invented – became “quad ball.” Then, critics called for a boycott of a new video game, Hogwarts Legacy, due to a lack of “queer” people in the development of the game. Even Rowling’s own friends begged her not to go public with her beliefs on gender ideology.

Still, she won’t kneel at the feet of the mob.

In a world where regular people can lose their jobs and be labeled transphobic bigots simply for acknowledging biological reality, high-profile voices like J.K. Rowling’s are so important.

She doesn’t care about legacy, cancellation or money. Because her legacy is undeniable, she’s un-cancellable and she’s already worth about $1 billion.

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Transgender woman is verbally assaulted at San Francisco Cheesecake Factory in viral TikTok video https://transoutloud.org/transgender-woman-is-verbally-assaulted-at-san-francisco-cheesecake-factory-in-viral-tiktok-video/ Tue, 14 Mar 2023 13:44:07 +0000 https://transoutloud.com/?p=48388

A disturbing TikTok video has gone viral showing the moment a transgender woman was verbally assaulted at a restaurant in San Francisco.

Content creator Lilly Contino was dining with her dog at the Cheesecake Factory in San Francisco’s Union Square while live-streaming a conversation with her followers when an unidentified woman began harassing her.

In the footage, the woman is heard proudly describing herself as a TERF to Ms Contino – an acronym for trans-exclusionary radical feminist meaning a person who sees themself as a feminist but who is transphobic.

“You know I’m a TERF right? Trans-eccentric radical feminist,” the woman is heard saying off-camera.

When Ms Contino asks if she is a TERF, the woman doubles down saying: “I am a TERF.”

She then asks Ms Contino if she wants her to move away, to which Ms Contino responds: “No, actually, you should tell me about being a TERF.”

At that point, the woman misgenders Ms Contino saying: “You’re a boy, right?”

She then begins to threaten Ms Contino with physical violence.

“Don’t f*** with me, ‘cause honestly I hit. I hit hard,” she says.

The incident continues with the woman telling Ms Contino not to “judge” her for being a TERF and telling her “I get to be who I want to be and you get to be who you want to be”.

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A self-identified TERF (trans-exclusionary radical feminist) threatened me at the @cheesecake factory. I happened to be streaming at the time and caught the encounter on camera. This happened at the Union Square location in San francisco

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She then tells Ms Contino to “take your stupid dog, eat your f***ing food and get the f*** out of my life” before saying she will “have to label you a white racist”.

Ms Contino then asks to speak to the manager of the restaurant who is heard off-camera apologising for the incident.

Ms Contino shared a clip of the encounter on her TikTok platform and, as of Monday morning, it had racked up 9.7 million views.

Ms Contino explained to KPIX that the harassment first began when the woman started telling jokes and then offered to show her a surgery scar on her stomach.

When she politely turned her down, the woman replied: “I’ll show you if I want to, son.”

“And, of course, as a trans person, I’m more sensitive to gender language,” Ms Contino said.

She said that she became more shocked as the incident went on, saying that nothing like that had ever happened to her before.

TikTok video captures transgender woman being harassed at Cheesecake Factory (TikTok/@lillytino)
TikTok video captures transgender woman being harassed at Cheesecake Factory (TikTok/@lillytino)

She was especially shocked, she said, given that she had moved from Georgia to the liberal city of San Francisco.

“I was just like flabbergasted. I’ve never been physically threatened in public. I’ve never been berated in public,” she said.

“Part of this was just shock and disbelief that this was happening. I live in San Francisco for a reason. I live here because it’s a liberal city, it’s one of the most queer-friendly cities in the world.

“To have it happen in such a public place and have nobody help.”

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Greenville Library System advances restricting transgender themes https://transoutloud.org/greenville-library-system-advances-restricting-transgender-themes/ Mon, 13 Mar 2023 22:48:14 +0000 https://transoutloud.com/?p=48392

Despite public outcry both during and after its meeting, the Greenville County Library System’s Materials Committee voted Monday to advance a proposal limiting access to transgender-themed materials.

The full board of trustees will vote on the proposal later this month.

The committee debated changing the library system’s collections development and maintenance policy, which governs the type of books and materials that are included in the library.

The committee specifically proposed changes to the library’s juvenile and young adult collections, seeking to move materials with “gender transition ideologies” into other collections that require an adult-access library card to check out.

In its proposed policy changes, the committee also sought to limit access to materials containing explicit descriptions or depictions of sexual acts, incest, pedophilia and graphic depictions of violence or abuse.

Although the committee is only made up of five board members, all 10 Board of Trustee members were present at the meeting either in-person or virtually to debate the proposed changes.

Employees and advocates:Greenville County Library System has ‘toxic’ board leadership

The Greenville County Library System's Materials Committee held a meeting open to the public at the Hughes Main Library on March 13, 2023. The subject of the meeting was to decided the fate of how 24 books will be handled in the library system. Committee member Elizabeth Collins at the meeting.

Greenville County Library System’s Materials Committee reviews 24 books, chooses broader action

The committee was expected to make a decision regarding the fate the 24 books that have been under review since last November, but instead of issuing permanent bans on any of those books, the committee focused instead on the library’s larger collections policy.

The committee was initially tasked by the board last fall to review 24 books, many with LGBTQ+ themes, that were subject to scrutiny from the county GOP and board members themselves.

A single copy of each of the following books was removed from circulation pending that review:

  • “Adventures with My Daddies”
  • “Daddy & Dada”
  • “Feminist Baby Finds Her Voice”
  • “Generation Brave: The Gen Z Kids Who Are Changing the World”
  • “Heather Has Two Mommies”
  • “It’s Perfectly Normal”
  • “It’s So Amazing: A Book About Eggs, Sperm, Birth, Babies, and Families”
  • “Love, Violet”
  • “Pride Puppy”
  • “Sex Is A Funny Word”
  • “Stella Brings The Family”
  • “Teo’s Tutu”
  • “You Don’t Have To Be Everything: Poems for Girls Becoming Themselves”
  • “Gender Queer”
  • “Lawn Boy”
  • “All Boys Aren’t Blue”
  • “Out of Darkness”
  • “The Hate U Give”
  • “The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian”
  • “Me and Earl and the Dying Girl”
  • “The Bluest Eye”
  • “This Book is Gay”
  • “Beyond Magenta”

After its decision to review those books, the library system faced accusations of censorship from employees and local advocates.

The committee formally completed that review at its meeting on Monday, but it took no action to ban any of the books. Instead, the committee focused on making changes to the board’s broader collections policy.

The Greenville County Library System's Materials Committee held a meeting open to the public at the Hughes Main Library on March 13, 2023. The subject of the meeting was to decided the fate of how 24 books will be handled in the library system. Members of the public brought signs to express their views on the issues.

Committee debate focuses on limiting transgender themes

Most of Monday’s discussion centered around the policy’s limitations on materials with transgender themes.

Joe Poore, vice chair of the board of trustees but not a voting member of the materials committee, expressed concerns about the proposals vague language, asking if it would disproportionately target the LGBTQ+ community.

Other board members expressed similar concerns about vague language, prompting committee chair Elizabeth Collins to include a further definition that gender transition ideologies are “anything that affirms that a person’s gender is other than that person’s biological sex.”

Marcia Moston, a materials committee member, spoke in favor of the proposed changes. She called access to children’s books with transgender themes “life threatening for our youth.”

Members of the public are not allowed to speak at library committee meetings, but attendees still expressed their outrage at Moston’s remarks by rising from their seats and waving posters in support of access to books with LGBTQ+ themes.

The Greenville County Library System's Materials Committee held a meeting open to the public at the Hughes Main Library on March 13, 2023. The subject of the meeting was to decided the fate of how 24 books will be handled in the library system. Committee member Joe Poore talks his views on the books.

Tommy Hughes, a committee member, along with Kenneth Baxter and Brian Aufmuth, both board members who are not on the committee, all raised the point that librarians are already trained to ensure that content in each collection is age appropriate.

Later in the meeting, Aufmuth said the proposed policy changes were seeking to solve a problem that doesn’t really exist. His comment was met with snaps, claps and muffled support from the audience.

Poore said he fears the board could be overstepping its role with this policy. He said parents should be responsible for what their children read in the library, and the board should “empower and encourage that responsibility.”

After more than an hour of debate, the committee voted unanimously to advance its juvenile policy changes to the full board. One committee member, Tommy Hughes, abstained from voting on the young adult policy changes, but it still passed with four votes.

The full board of trustees will meet at noon on Monday, March 27, at Hughes Main Library to vote on the proposed policy changes.

− Tim Carlin covers county government, growth and development for The Greenville News. Follow him on Twitter@timcarlin_, and get in touch with him atTCarlin@gannett.com.

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